Parent with Connection & Ease!
A simple Step by Step Process that anyone can master so you can communicate in a way that feels more lighthearted, playful and relaxed while ALSO raising kids who can listen to you the first time you ask them to.
AUDIO COURSE
THE POWERFULLY GROUNDED PARENT
CLICK TO GET IT NOW!Can you imagine this?
✨ Breakfast is an enjoyable experience around the table where kids sit and eat while also engaging in conversation.
✨ Kids are dressed, teeth brushed, shoes on and in the car on time for school or after school activities.
✨ Kids listen to you because they want to.
✨ Bedtime is the best part of the day, no one fights you, but rather they can't wait for bedtime with you.
If this is unimaginable to you, we need to talk...you may be thinking to yourself....
"I’m doing the work but it isn't working and I’m so frustrated they’re never going to listen and they’re going to become spoiled brats"
If this is you, I want you to know you are not broken and your kids are not broken. Changing your entire parenting paradigm is not easy on your own, and without guidance, you likely ARE overlooking some things or not implementing correctly. For example:
What are the correct steps to take BEFORE you try to correct your kids' unwanted behavior?
How do you set the right boundaries?
How do you hold a boundary when it gets crossed?
How do you know when you are triggered if you aren't the yelling type?
How do you recognize early signs that your kid is triggered?
How do you regulate yourself and you kid?
How has fear of the past repeating itself and future casting been dictating your parenting?
What is behind your kids seemingly "spoiled" "entitled" behavior?
If you aren't sure, you need support. You need someone to walk you through the steps so you know you're implementing the RIGHT strategies at the RIGHT time with your child.
Consider this truth...
Every well adjusted adult started off a child.
And in order to grow up well adjusted, children need to be seen by their parents. They need to cultivate self love, confidence, resilience and they need boundaries.
So, how are you expected to cultivate the environment for raising well adjusted adults and set appropriate boundaries, when no one teaches you how to parent and when you don't have the right strategies in place to create a thriving environment?
If a flower doesn’t bloom in a desert, do you blame the flower?
Every parent knows that kids don't come with an instruction manual.
On top of it, they’re constantly changing from one phase of development to the next. It’s like a moving target to try and keep up with their needs. What worked for you yesterday doesn’t work today, so it’s no wonder you end your day feeling guilty for falling short.
You want to connect, have harmony and joy in your family, to feel good about how you handle the heat of tense moments, but how are you going to do that unless you have a proven, holistic, synergistic approach to raising kids who listen without you getting triggered or yelling? An approach that works regardless of the age and stage of your kids?
If you've been in the same spot for more than 3 months then you may be feeling stuck.
It’s not your fault. We can’t heal what we don’t know….
Which is why I’ve created this audio course.
Why Becoming Powerfully Grounded is the Reason I have my dream family
When you're a parent, you are a role model. No way around it. On top of it, your kids know when you're trying to teach them something you haven't mastered yourself.
I resisted that fact for a long time. I was so afraid of the skeletons in my closet, that I didn't even bother challenging my parenting paradigm - I was dead set on raising my kids at least as well as I was raised, but still following a traditional parenting paradigm (spoiler alert: this resulted in disconnection and kids who didn't listen).
Sound familiar?
It took me years before I realized how much you can drastically increase connection and cooperation with your kids when you simply understand and learn how to work with your own triggers.
And here's a helpful hint:
When Kids Don't Listen...it's rarely a need for correction.
Have you ever considered that the reason you can't get your kids to listen was simply because they had an emotional need that wasn't addressed?
Maybe they simply felt afraid, not seen, too much for you to handle, or even overloaded.
When they say "No", those are not "NOs." They are "Not Yets".
"Not until I regulate myself ..."
"Not until I know my experience matters to you..."
"Not until I know you don't judge me"
"Not until you deal with your own triggers"
THIS is why...
99% of All Kid Misbehaviors are rooted in fear
Your kids are desperate for your approval and love. They are keenly aware that they need to please you, especially the defiant ones who seem to not care at all about you or your wants. They SENSE you judge them, you don't like them, or you feel bullied by them. That can be really scary to a kid!
BUT...
It's your job to help your kids move through that fear into safety and trust. And kids rarely (if ever) are able to cooperate, listen and connect from a place of fear!
But you and I both know that most autopilot parents never look at it this way (hence why they struggle). Most parents just try to double down on punishment or consequences. BUT...
your triggers are like the elephant in the room. the more you ignore them, the bigger they get!
And maybe you too have been guilty of doing this in the past? I know I have! You hope that if you ignore your triggers, they will magically go away... or you hope that if you do enough breathwork, you'll remain calm...or worse - you hope that if you threaten your kids enough, they will actually listen next time....but how's that working out for ya?!
Think about it like this: how do you ever expect to get your kids to listen when both you and they have unmet needs that you haven’t known were there to address?
You won't! Because the unmet needs are the very reason they aren't listening to you in the first place!
Instead, I see autopilot parents using what I call...
"Traditional" Parenting:
(which doesn't actually work)
Instead of becoming POWERFULLY GROUNDED and addressing emotional needs head-on, these "traditional" parents rely on...
Punishment - They believe if they simply control their kids through punishment and fear, they'll teach kids right from wrong.
Short-lived band aid solutions that intend to put out fires on the surface but never address the root of the problem
Blaming kids for them getting triggered and exploding, which also gives away their personal power, instead of taking empowered accountability for their own emotional state
Sweeping their own triggers under the rug, because they think it's too hard to change themselves
This may get their kids' attention momentarily, but it leaves default autopilot parents baffled when they see how disconnected their kids are from them, sneaking behind their backs, lying and not really listening even after all that!
Many default autopilot parents make the mistake of thinking that if they "just knew what to do or say" they'd be able to raise kids who listen without having to resort to yelling or threatening, and maybe you've had thoughts like that too, but you and I both know that if that were true, then every single parent would see the same results after applying the same script, tip, trick or strategy. This is why so many parents are exhausted running from one training to the next trying to duct tape a solution for themselves and their families with no idea how to exit this toxic cycle.
Despite how many parents stay stuck in overwhelm and anger, there are the few that know how to get their kids to engage, to listen, to cooperate without needing to yell or threaten, without sacrificing connection, ease and harmony inside their families. So what do those powerfully grounded parents have that you don't?
The truth is:
Being "Traditional" will NEVER Actually Address The Real Issues Your Children Have!
Which means your children will never feel heard and they will never feel connected to you.
And I KNOW you became a parents because you want that deep connection ... but how the heck will they ever listen to you if you are unwilling to listen to them when they point you to your triggers?
And trust me, every parent, no matter their cultural background and upbringing, has tiggers they aren't dealing with!
So what exactly IS a TRIGGER?
You’ll quickly notice my definition of a trigger is different than most and offers a completely new way of understanding how you empower yourself to address it.
Trigger: (n.) a belief or perspective (most likely rooted in fear) held by you that is preventing you from addressing your children's unmet emotional needs.
Even more importantly: a trigger is the reason why your kids don't listen.
And it’s important to note:
Children naturally want to be connected to their parents. They want ease and harmony just as much as you do. This includes your "defiant" and "oppositional" kids.
It's Time You Finally Learn How to identify, address and overcome your triggers Once-And-for-All so you can bring connection, ease and harmony into your family!
This audio course is Going to BLOW Your MIND 🤯 With Some of the Most POWERFUL & Highly Effective Parenting Strategies That Have You Walking Out of This Experience With a New-Found "Bring it On!" Attitude!
5 Hours That Will Change Your Family FOREVER!
- Master how to identify the root cause of your triggers so you can reframe and disarm even the most challenging ones!
- How to quickly identify WHAT is your unmet emotional need and then what is your child's unmet emotional need
- Finally understand EXACTLY how to set boundaries and hold them without using punishment or consequences
- Walk away with specific scripted responses you can practice with your child to create connection on a day to day basis !
- Learn how to regulate yourself and your child (HINT: If you're waiting until the heat of the moment, it's too late!)
- Plus! Get my step by step blueprint on how to break patterns and cycles and create NEW patterns for generations to come
THE
HOW TO become a powerfully grounded parent and overcome your triggers
audio course
See Why So Many Parents are RAVING About This:
“…[Rachel is] very skilled at helping to quickly identify issues and point blank, but kindly, pointing them out.”
“...Session two was on a whole other level!! Holding judgment and Shifting beliefs about parenting is empowering to me as a mom!”
“Shifting my perspective and starting to understand the origin of my struggles with parenting was HUGE!”
“....Once Rachel helped bring to light a childhood “hurt” of mine, my understanding of why I get frustrated made sense… and as a result, my children’s behavior has become 90% better/less triggering. I breathe deeper and I’m a more relaxed parent...”
“The punishment vs. behavior vs. building relationships - felt like you spoke straight at me.”
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I was very struck by the idea that you can’t connect if there is judgment. This changes everything.”
Why Now? This is the right time for you if....
- You're DONE with feeling guilty for how you react when you get triggered.
- You want to raise kids who are motivated, resilient, self sufficient and well adjusted.
- You are ready to set and hold boundaries that reinforce connection without resorting to yelling.
- You're ready to be coached outside your comfort zone so you can experience quantum leaps in personal growth.
- Everything you tried so far hasn't worked, or worked short term only and you're sick of it, ready to be done with band aid solutions.
- You're a busy parent who has no more time to waste, you need to make these years count.
- You and your family are paying a high price every day that you aren't taking steps towards change.
- You know that understanding the root cause behaviors of our kids, of ourselves, shifting our perspective on parenting, healing our own hurts is not just the most effective way, it the ONLY way to have kids who listen and are respectful without using punishment, without getting our buttons pushed and without ending the day feeling guilty.
Since working with families over the past 2 decades, I’ve seen hundreds, if not thousands, of families go through difficulties like separation, divorce, parenting struggles and family therapy. I've helped those families become more powerfully grounded so they could reverse the damage that all those struggles have caused inside their family.
I charge premium prices because I only work with highly committed people. My private clients pay a starting point of $3,000 to work with me.
I don't often offer anything this inexpensive, and chances are, I never will again!
So, why now?
Over the past few years, especially since the pandemic, I’ve seen so many GOOD parents with GREAT kids struggle to connect, and it pains me.
I believe to my core that the parent child relationship is the most important relationship of our lives. So, it's time we even the playing field. It's time you learn an effective way to bring connection, ease and harmony into your family life.
It’s for that reason that I want to make sure I get this training into as many hands as I possibly can so I can help you get going to help your kids even faster.
If you would like my help and guidance in doing that, your investment price is just $147 $47.
And if you're having any resistance to this low, low investment, well... that's a good opportunity to ask yourself why!
Because...
If you are unwilling to do what it takes to overcome YOUR triggers and outbursts, how could you ever ask your kids to overcome theirs?!
⭐️ 30 audios of Powerfully Grounded Parenting that will give you the complete blueprint to change your family dynamics.
⭐️ Audios are dripped on a weekly basis so you have time to digest and implement.
⭐️ Instant & Lifetime Access to the materials
⭐️ Meditations and Visualizations.
⭐️ Workbooks to download and complete on your own as you listen.
⭐️ Plus! Listen anywhere at your own time and pace
"This is GREAT Rachel! ...but I Don't remember anything from my childhood!"
IRRELEVANT! 100% not important!
Ok, I used to think this was an issue too. And as a result, you end up being a victim to you past and you give up at the first sign of any "resistance" from your kids. Which means, no connection. Today, I fight for my clients. So, here's how I realized, NO trigger is un-resolvable.
First, remember that regardless of what you remember from childhood, your triggers are showing up in the PRESENT.
An trigger is merely a reaction based upon a BELIEF.
And a BELIEF is a PERSPECTIVE.
And there is ALWAYS more than one PERSPECTIVE, right?
So, why would you NOT offer yourself a new perspective ?
"Yeah, But Rachel, I just don't have time right now"
Remember when you were thinking about having kids and you were trying to figure out the “right time” - is there EVER a right time?
I totally get that we’re super busy, many of my clients, myself included, we’re entrepreneurs or otherwise very high performing individuals and by definition that means we’re BUSY. We pile a lot on our plates. There are only 24 hours in a day, and yet, we MAKE the time for things that are important.
What could possibly take priority over getting your family on track?
What could possibly be more important than your kids?
I know you’re a devoted loving parent, and I also know that parenting is the most important role of your life.
I trust that you will make the time because most likely -
family is your #1 priority.
Wouldn’t you have MORE time to enjoy your family if I could show you how to significantly decrease all the time you are spending on arguing, being angry at each other and resentful?
“I don’t have the time” is THE reason to sign up for this and do the work, it’s the very problem we’re going to solve together.
So it’s time to choose and decide and I want you to decide from a place of power and possibility, not from a place of fear and constriction.
If you’re ready to believe in yourself and become a better parent - then I’m ready to be your guide.
And if you’re not ready - that’s ok, but understand it means you are choosing to stay in the struggle, you are choosing to face what all parents face which is being stuck in your triggers and the cycle of guilt: wake up in the morning promising to do better and end the day berating yourself for failing again.
Hopping from one free webinar to the next trying to duct tape a solution together and never getting a holistic, synergistic cohesive plan for you and your family.
This audio course offers you a step by step proven method. You follow it, you implement it, you will get results. Simple. Straightforward. If you can follow a Lego instruction manual, you can follow this. You don’t need to have a phd in child psychology or to be a certified parenting coach to have these results for yourself, you just need to follow a proven methodology.
When you're ready, I'm waiting on the other side for you.
The Guarantee That Makes This All A Complete No-Brainer:
In other words, if you feel like this course can't save you at LEAST one tantrum or turn even just ONE of your kid's "no!" into a "yes!" all you need to do is email me and I will happily refund 100% of your funds — no questions asked.
