“I felt connected with many epiphanies during and after sessions!" 

When your kids don't listen to you, it sucks. Especially if you don't know how to get them to listen unless you bribe them with something, yell or threaten to take something away, right?!
If you’re like most autopilot parents I work with, you became a parent because you want to connect and enjoy your family...
...not spend all day getting them back in line!

Well, the reality is this:

On top of it, they’re constantly changing from one phase of development to the next. It’s like trying to hit a moving target to keep up with their needs. What worked for you yesterday doesn’t work today, so it’s no wonder you end your day feeling guilty for falling short.

Most parents just want to raise happy, resilient kids, kids who have drive and motivation, and a family where there is deep connection, ease and joy.

How are you supposed to do that without a proven approach?

I mean... has it worked so far? If you’re like most who come to me, it’s very likely a “no.”

We're going to change that!

When your every day is full of yelling, kids not listening or misbehaving, can’t get their shoes on in time to get to the bus stop, fighting with you at bedtime, won’t get off screens, meltdowns over seemingly nothing - these are all aspects of dysregulation, disconnection and discord inside your family.

Chances are you didn’t become a parent to repeat patterns you learned growing up, or to create yet another family where you aren't seen…

Yet most parents are doing exactly that: re creating dynamics from their childhood without even knowing it. Instead of learning how to identify and break patterns, they focus on correcting their kids' behavior because they mistakenly think that is the entirety of the problem.

If you are sitting there thinking about the things that didn't go great for you today with your kids, yet you aren't looking into how to disarm your own triggers, how to regulate yourself and your child and how to stop recreating dysfunctional generational patterns in your family in the hopes that it’ll figure itself out one day….

I have good news and bad news...

...the bad news is it won't figure itself out. You probably already know this.

...the good news is that you CAN learn how to regulate both you and your child, how to relate differently to old hurts that keep popping up in your life, and how to bring ease, harmony and joy into your family life.

If correcting your child is the only tool in your parenting toolbox, you're guaranteeing disconnection in your family.​

Of course this doesn't mean you never have to correct your child. But you may not even know right now that you have other options, that can actually get you what you want.

The chances of you creating connection & ease so you can raise kids who listen is practically zero, unless you have...

a step by step proven holistic process that works for every age and every stage!

THE #1 MISTAKE AUTOPILOT PARENTS MAKE: 

When Kids Don't Listen, Most Parents Repeat Themselves 100x Until They Yell...

...which only results in the kids shutting down and you ending the day feeling guilty for not living up to the parent you want to be.

And you probably already noticed that a shut down child does NOT listen.

Or worse! Mistake #2...

They rush to correct their children's misbehavior without ever pausing to understand the dysregulation behind the misbehavior.

Understanding that dysregulation is the ONLY way to create the family you want and raise kids who listen without you getting triggered. It is the ONLY way to build a sturdy emotional foundation for your kids so they can develop life skills like resilience, frustration tolerance, confidence, time management, nuanced social skills - all these things you probably want for your kids cannot be built on a foundation of disconnect, with a family who is stuck in dysregulation. And when you start getting familiar with your nervous system and how to regulate it, well then you’re also on the FASTEST track to building the family life you want.

Until we start understanding how to regulate ourselves and our kids, it’s costing us emotional pain, time & energy trying to duct tape a solution together for us and our kids somehow getting through the day, and if you aren’t paying in mental health, physical health, time or energy, you’re paying in dollars, tens of thousands of dollars on family therapy or (and) on divorce attorneys when the family unit finally breaks.

Correcting behavior as your FIRST OR ONLY tool doesn't work! Autopilot parents, when they see chronic and repeated misbehavior in their children, have one and only one strategy to “fix it.”

But the reality is, repeating yourself, yelling, or taking away a privilege doesn’t make your children listen beyond that very moment! Not to mention that the only reason they "listen" in the moment when you finally yell or give them a consequence is because they're scared and you have leverage over them, which you intuitively KNOW is what leaves you feeling frustrated and guilty at the end of the day!

And after 20+ of working in the trenches with families, building my own powerfully grounded family and teaching numerous others how to do it as well it’s as clear and simple as this:

You shouldn't be putting band aids over bullet wounds.

Your family NEEDS a great leader. Your family DESERVES a great leader. 

How else do you expect your kids to grow up inspired, with confidence, resilience, and mastering the emotional tools to navigate their adult lives? 

But if you keep “putting out fires” just to keep the peace or get them to school on time because you don't have the energy to invest in a deeper more permanent approach to parenting, they will never LEARN those skills.

What happens when you don't know how to regulate yourself?

Or your kids never learn to regulate themselves?

What happens when you don't know how to love them in a way they can receive as being seen and heard?

What then? It’s back to square one... minus tens of thousands of hours and dollars you spent on family therapists or divorce attorneys.

But when you LEARN and MASTER the skills of self regulation, conscious parenting, compassion, breaking patterns and setting boundaries, you and your kids take those skills into every area of your lives.

Why are you still waiting for your kids to outgrow this phase?

Why are you still in the struggle of getting them to school on time without yelling?

Why do you still carry guilt for the way you handled the last time they melted down?

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The catalyst of change is YOU.

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What I know about my students for sure, is that once they decide something, they do not let anything stand in their way. Have you ever not achieved your goals when they were NON NEGOTIABLE to you? 

I'm sorry if this is harsh, but life doesn't work that way.

No one is coming to save you but you.

You need to BEcome powerfully grounded.

You need to DO what powerfully grounded parents are doing.

....and only then will you HAVE what powerfully grounded parents have.....

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Kids who are respectful and kind.

Kids who thrive in school and at home.

Kids who listen and get along (mostly!)

Peace of mind that you have equipped them with the best tools to navigate the sometimes harsh reality of life.

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So, ask yourself:

​Who do you need to become and what do you need to do right now in your family if you knew that there was nothing you had to wait for?

Be that person.

Do that thing.

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Because for every day you do NOT take ACCOUNTABILITY AND RESPONSIBILITY for the state of your family life, you DELAY the dream family life that you want.

So....

Do you actually want to have it all...?

or does part of you resist because you think it isn't possible? or you don't deserve it?

It’s legit disappointing to watch yourself sabotage or just be out of integrity with your promises to change your family dynamics, wondering ‘what’s wrong with me’.

Just pause for a moment, and ask yourself –

‘What is stopping me? Why would I NOT want to be connected to my kids, to break my patterns, to invest time and energy in solving this issue? … why would that be bad, wrong or not SAFE?’

It’s a key question to ask if you have the slightest notion that you might be the one holding yourself back from accomplishing the things you SAY you dream of.

It IS TRUE that there are reasons and circumstances that hold us back, but if you are ever to transcend those circumstances, you have to be willing to ask yourself some deeper questions.

Curiosity is a powerful thing. The quality of your life is determined by the quality of questions you ask. So start asking yourself better questions.

For example - why have you not taken on a coach or mentor to help you realize your family dreams? Why have you not found a way to invest time and money in yourself and your family?

There is also a specific ORDER to addressing misbehavior in our kids.

What if you had the step by step instructions to understand what needs to be addressed in what order and how to do it?

 ... EVEN if you’ve never taken a single parent training before!

No more overwhelm!

No more wondering if you're messing up your kids!

No more wasting time or energy on pointless arguments to get shoes on!

...that you pick up your kid from school without having to worry about whether or not you brought the "right" snack...

...that it's Friday and you notice you haven't thrown your hands up in the air a single time all week....

...that your kid has a meltdown but you confidently know how to handle it in the moment and also how to help them process it afterwards...

...imagine you could spend one hour a week in group coaching and move towards that goal every single week...

...You would have ease and harmony in your family already!

And you already know, once you learn how to ride a bike, you always know how to ride a bike... even if you're out of practice.
In fact, powerfully grounded parents use these the exact same skills in EVERY single relationship in their lives. 
Isn’t it great to learn something once and get it to work for you for years?!

Wouldn’t that be nice?

Well, you don’t have to “imagine” any longer. Because... it’s here.

“OMG...Everything you said has gone through my head!"

“You are such a gift, it's like you know the struggles inside my heart. My self esteem has come up so much just knowing I am not alone. You've helped me find the places inside ME that I've been trying to identify so I can work on that part. I have gotten teary over and over as you speak because finally someone sees me.”

“Results after day one ... Shifting my perspective and starting to understand the origin of my struggles with parenting was HUGE! ....…She’s very skilled at helping to quickly identify issues and point blank, but kindly, pointing them out. "Thank you Rachel!"

BR, Mom of 2

“I breathe deeper and I’m a more relaxed parent.”

“I've been trying to 'duct tape' info and I struggle to be present. I'm learning how to love my kid they way he needs to be loved and it shows in his behavior”.

AC,
Dad of 1

"Rubber meets the road tangible tools!"

”It wasn't until I started working with Rachel that I realized I wasn't alone...No person is meant to raise children by themselves...Rachel really gave me some rubber meets the road tangible tools that I could use in that moment...”

BS, Mom of 2

“This is Great Rachel!
...But What IF I Don’t Have a Partner who supports me?!”

This is about the time where you might be saying, “My Partner isn't supportive of me. Shouldn't I focus on getting them on board first?" NO.

Why Trying to Get Your Partner On Board BEFORE You Change Your Parenting Paradigm is BACKWARDS!

Most autopilot parents waste months trying to get their partners on board to "try" something different, to invest in a program or a coach and THEN they decide to reach out for help. Sound familiar?

...joining a group coaching program where you are with peers and a mentor guiding you is even more important than for those of you whose partner is supportive!!

We are all products of our environment, and if you live in an environment where your growth is not supported, where your efforts to parent in a way that builds and doesn't erode connection are not fully supported by your partner - you need this community more than anyone.

How successful do you think you're going to be on your own in an unsupportive environment?

Anyone who's ever tried to lose 10 pounds knows that the first step you need to take is to stock your fridge with healthy food to set your environment up for success. Joining a group coaching program is the environmental setup for success that will support you on your way to raising kids who listen without you yelling or threatening so you can bring ease, harmony and connection to your relationship.

Most powerfully grounded parents I know started without the support of a partner because they went all in on themselves FIRST. They stepped up to the plate to be the person they've always been - relentless, intense, determined and strong.

Watch how your partner starts deferring to you once they realize YOU have the tools to regulate yourself and the kids, YOU have the skills to communicate in a way that kids can hear you, YOU are able to set healthy boundaries.

"Wait, are you saying this program doesn't just help my relationship with my kids... It helps my relationship with my partner too??"

Yes. That's EXACTLY what I'm saying. 😎

And you might be reading this thinking "I'm doing the work but it isn't working for me, can't you just tell me what to do?"

YES! Of course I can, but what to do isn't enough (if it were, you would have figured it out by now, cause you're smart). Likely, you are either not implementing what you already know or you have blind spots that no one is pointing out to you.

No one will ever know your kids, your family, or your situation as well as YOU DO. That's why YOU are the parenting expert, and I am just here to show you what you're not looking at so you can make the best decisions for your family.

And look, the mistake most parents make is thinking they're too tired, overwhelmed and drained to do this. Isn't it easier just to punish or take away a privilege?

Well, let me ask you - is it?

What if punishing, disciplining and taking away privileges is the thing that drains you?

You’re about to learn what I’ve taught my private clients about creating true connection in your family... without the big price tag!

If you were to hire me to come in and facilitate this change for you this would cost you anywhere from $5-$20k.

The last thing I want is for you to continue to suffer which is why I’ve put together this group.

Powerfully Grounded Parenting Group Coaching is a $997 investment. At that price, it’s a no-brainer. Why? Because if you implemented just ONE change a week, you'd save thousands more on support for your family for the rest of your life.

Plus, I've taken the risk out of it for you, read on to see the guarantee.

“Once we 'identify' the problem, we are better able to handle it. I feel these classes have helped me identify, where the actual issues lay. I am 100% guilty of fear driving me. My number one reason I realize why I get upset with the lack of control is fear —fear of the consequences of their “behavior” if it were to continue, so called “un-checked” by me. This has been such a wonderful experience to share this growth with you. So grateful for Rachel for your shedding light on all of this for us and bringing us together on this journey!

AS, mom of 2

OK, Here's a quick recap

When you join The Powerfully Grounded Parent Group Coaching Experience, you'll receive instant access to everything you need to ...

• Raise kids who listen without you repeating yourself 100x
• Stop finding yourself yelling by 7:30am.
• No more dreading setting boundaries for fear of how they will react.
• Consistent ease and harmony in your family.

You'll also be invited to start coming to our weekly coaching calls where the MAGIC HAPPENS! Get coached LIVE by me on your questions in real time.

Private clients pay $5-$20K to work with me. Yours for a fraction of the price.

🎯 24 Weekly group coaching calls to coach you through your burning questions. 

🎯A community of like minded peers to inspire and support you.

🎯 Training Modules that guide you step by step through the process.

🎯 Worksheets and downloadables for almost every module.

🎯 Bonus trainings so you can get started quickly.

And much, much more!

This makes everything you get over $1,700 in value! ($1,758 to be exact!) And you can get it all for just $390 today!

If you're here, then there is a part of you that has been called to step up to your highest version as a parent and dare I say as a human. 

IN EVERY MOMENT OF LIFE THERE IS DISCIPLINE REQUIRED.

This discipline is the process of building an internal reference guide for YOU to follow as you evolve into the most powerfully grounded version of yourself and watch what happens to your family when you do that.

 Sit and watch as your kids start moving about in the world with more confidence and feeling good about themselves.

 Watch as your partner defers to you because they see how effective you are in communicating with the kids.

 Watch as your kids need less and less reminders to do what it is they need to do.

 Watch as you move away from punishment, consequences and taking away privileges and it INCREASES compliance.

 Watch as you feel full of HOPE, maybe for the first time.

The question is do you have the discipline to keep making the choices that are required of you to get there?